Archive for May, 2008

A Semester In Review- Your Personal Reflection

So as the school year winds up and we all return to our homes (or away from home) I thought it would be necessary for all of us to reflect on our past semester. So here’s how it works:

-In the comments below, post a reflection to this past semester at college.
-You might want to focus on successes, failures, new things you learned, and even plans for next year. But don’t let yourself be limited to just that: you might find it necessary to share new insights or strategies you have developed along the way. Try to track your progress on a time scale starting from the beginning of the semester to the end. As you lead us through your journey of self improvement spare no details!

This should be a good way to fully access how far we have come in so little time and also help ourselves get on track for the even better times to come! So lets hear it!

Does She Really Have Feelings For You?- How to Tell From Her Smile

ight chaps, I’m on a roll and here and back to share another important finding w/ you. So from taking psychology class this semester one important tidbit of info I came away with was in regards to the way we smile. It is also obvious that sometimes you can fake a smile while other times, it comes as genuine. So what does this mean in regards to sargin’? Well, when we genuinely smile one important inference can be made: that we have feelings for the other individual. However, these days people fake smiles all the time. So how does a PUA go from deciphering if a chick really has feelings for him or not? Well, this aspect lies latent to even the most observant individuals. But… If you take notice, you will see that when we genuinely smile certain muscles are used that are not used in a fake smile. The easiest way to tell a genuine smile from a fake one is to take note of the side of the chicks eyes. If you notice creases as she smiles, then the smile is genuine.

So how can we use this? Well, simply put, this can be used to tell if a chick has feelings for you. If so, then you probably have a good chance of success. Whats great about this is the fact that, smiling is one of the first things we do in an interaction and can also be one of the most frequent. So right from the start by hardly saying anything can you tell if she is interested. With that off your mind, it is much easier to game on and progress through your routines. Cheers!

The Science Channel is Hardcore Rock in my Ass’ness- AWESOME FINDING

Well, I just happened to be watching the science channel the other day and came across a program dealing with social interactions and psychology. The program itself was very interesting, so I continued to watch it for the duration of the hour. It wasn’t until halfway through did it offer a very useful piece of advice. This advice I found (although I have yet to test it) can have major implications in the field. So what was the finding you ask? Here goes: Researchers took two individuals (similar looking middle aged males) and placed them in separate rooms. They then took a sample of random individuals (men and women; one on one interactions) and had them carry on a conversation with these two individuals. However, they asked that one individual act “mean” while the other act “friendly”. Now here’s the really interesting part… While these two men were interacting with various individuals they asked them to make various physical motions such as brushing their hair with their hands, leaning back in their chair, and even changing the position of their legs. In so doing, the researchers found that the individuals would actually copy the movements of the friendly guy while not copying the movements of the unfriendly guy.

So… What does this mean for us fellow sargers??? Well, there are two ways you can use this information to benefit you in the field. 1) It will help you tell if the chick you are talking to likes you. This is basically an IOI that no one talks about. 2) If you find that she is copying your movements, then you could somehow get her to copy your movements into kino escalation with one another. I’m not yet sure if this would even work or how to go about doing it however, the information posed above is intriguing. So who wants to put it to the test? I would like to hear how it goes->

Female Responsiveness to Guys who are Jacked

What is it about women and their “hard on” for guys who are jacked? Some might say its because it portrays physical fitness while others might contest that “women just like to get rocked hard”… Well, ever since I really started studying the game this past semester I noticed that chicks dig guys more if they are muscular. So what did I do? Well I decided that it couldn’t hurt to try and get slightly more jacked and see if there was a difference in the way women perceived me. So I went to the gym 3-4 times a week and gained about 5 pounds… What did I find nearing the end of the semester? While I have no actual evidence, I must say that womens perception of you is noticeable. For instance, they will notice you more, chicks you know will make more of an attempt to talk to you, chicks you don’t know will make more of an attempt to talk to you, and if a chick see’s you working out in the gym you will have more qualification in her eyes. Also, I’ve noticed that if you know people who are jacked you will DHV in chicks perceptions of you. For instance, I was sitting with this acquaintance of mine in the library (who is pretty jacked). Meanwhile, I noticed that this sorority chick was eying us up from behind one of the desks in the library. My friend then leaves, leaving me alone at a row of computers. Seeing that there were plenty of available computers, what does this chick do? She goes ahead and sits at the computer right next to mine. I’ll spare the details so as not get off topic but as you can see females are VERY responsive to this aspect. Now because I have just started this I really have a limited time frame of evidence to work off of. All I know is, for the 3-4 hour weekly time requirement, this investment really pays off! But I suppose time will tell, will keep you guys updated.

Email Closer

Ok, this just happened like 10 minutes ago.  I was in the computer lab at my school printing out some stuff when I see this girl sitting diagonal from me.  I recognize her because the last time I was in the computer lab I was sitting at the same computer and so was she-there are over 100 computers in the room and about 20,000 students at my school-so this ain’t no everyday coincidence.  I decide to comment on it-plus she’s kind of cute.  So I start with a situational opener “Say, you got a thing for that computer or something?”  She’s like “huh?!”  I tell her why and she laughs it off, saying she was just printing some stuff out.  Since the conversation was totally situational so far, its hard to take somewhere interesting.  I ask her what she was printing.  She talks about that for like a minute or two.  I tell her I have an interview later this afternoon (which I do).  She used to study law-I worked at a law firm last semester.  We have somewhat of a connection building.  I consider using the pegs routine but it seems like neither the time nor the place.  I don’t feel like escalating kino either in this spontaneous day-game setting.  So I just tell her a little about my trip to China and how I speak some Chinese-which everyone here says is a tough language to learn.  I had to prepare for my interview soon so I ask for and receive an email address before I leave.  I figure I’ll wait a few days before dropping her one.

Lesson Learned: day game is not as difficult as I once thought it was.  The interactions are slower paced and people aren’t always expecting it, but I found it no more difficult to get info in a day game setting than a night game setting in the end.

Pictures of my new bling

Just put them up on facebook. However, I know SOME people on this blog think they are too good for facebook. Won’t name names. ;) Therefore, I shall post them here as well:




Bottom pic is my full collection thus far, except for my grill, which is still at Dino’s place. The top left and top center are my Big T chain and money ring…my money chain is at the bottom. The blue bracelet on the left was made by a friend of mine. I got my pin at the center and the disco beads on the right.