So it was just the other night that I was struck with another one of my revelations. We need to prioritize, first things first and it goes something like this- How many attempts have we made to pickup chicks at bars and other venues? Then consider- how many were successful versus how many were not? Chances are that our success rate could be as low as 1%. In addition, what defines success? Is it a number close or perhaps a date? Regardless, the variable underlying success following this 1% is even less. I am about to introduce you guys to a concept that has never been considered in the realm of sargin’ (well at least not between us). The concept is conversion. That is, what our success rate is based on the number of attempts and more specifically what is the optimal way to increase such a figure… Well, if our way would have it we could continue to sarge until we gain a marginal amount of success. But after a year of being in the field I have found that no matter how many times you sarge won’t mean shit if you don’t have value. Value is key here guys. And I fear we have wasted our time in bars because we are missing this one key ingredient. My proposal for us to move further is to not focus on so much, the art of picking up chicks but rather on doing things which build value for us. For instance: working out, educating yourself in something interesting, doing a martial art, taking cooking classes, dance class, earning money to buy nice clothes and groom yourself well, the list goes on and on… I think this is a new and innovative approach plus it should be a sigh of relief for many of us who face anxiety with this type of practice. Given enough time to build value you will find many unique opportunities open up to meet women and in addition, many women will come to you! I like this new approach becuase I feel as if its more natural, less stressful, and more successful in the long run. So get out there and start having interesting experiences which prove your value! And a reminder for all of us- Don’t just sit around and wank… 1-up?
